When Bob Pattison first began experiencing mild stomach cramping in June 2024, he didn’t expect it to lead to a life-changing diagnosis. The 49-year-old husband and father of two daughters thought it might be something minor. However, when the pain worsened and began radiating from his chest to his back, Bob’s life took an unexpected turn — one that would test his courage, resilience, and hope.
Early Symptoms and Diagnosis
What started as mild discomfort soon evolved into serious pain and changes in digestion. After multiple visits to the doctor, Bob underwent scans that revealed stomach cancer with lesions on his liver.
“I had more cancer in my liver than I did in my stomach,” Bob shared. “It was shocking. The chest pain was more dominant than anything else — it turned out to be blood clots from my liver.”
Despite the devastating diagnosis, Bob immediately began focusing on treatment and understanding his options.
Treatment and Adjustments
Bob’s initial treatment plan began with FOLFOX chemotherapy, a combination regimen used to treat gastric cancer. He went through 16 cycles of treatment, experiencing both regression and progression of the disease.
When his cancer began to progress again in early 2025, his oncologist utilized Guardant360 testing, a genomic blood test that tracks tumor DNA levels. “We switched over to Ramucirumab and Paclitaxel,” Bob said, “but when we saw further growth, my oncologist suggested exploring clinical trials.”
Now, Bob is receiving Cetuximab, an immunotherapy that has shown positive results. “My oncologist said that when the acne-like rash appears, it means it’s working — and I’ve got it,” he smiled.
Family History and Emotional Challenges
Cancer isn’t new to Bob’s family. His mother battled rectal cancer when he was just 16 years old. While she overcame the disease, she later passed away from complications related to infection. This personal experience shaped Bob’s understanding of the emotional and physical toll of cancer.
“The ups and downs are real — it’s not just physical, it’s emotional,” Bob said. “You have to learn that it’s okay to talk about it, to be vulnerable, and to reach out for help.”
Finding Hope and Purpose
Even in the face of uncertainty, Bob remains focused on advocacy and connection. He hopes to see more support groups and earlier screening options for stomach cancer. “When I see someone new at the oncology center, I can tell they’re scared. I always try to talk to them — it helps both of us.”
His message to others: “It’s not just about fighting cancer; it’s about finding strength, community, and purpose.”